This little witch looks anything BUT thrilled.
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Halloween week
This little witch looks anything BUT thrilled.
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Cuteness
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Romeo, Romeo
Table for 3
Monday, October 19, 2009
Another seizure....
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Suit says teacher tried to sicken boy with peanut allergy
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Suit says teacher tried to sicken allergic boy
Educator at RISE didn't want to take student with autism on field trip to zoo, reports say:
The mother of a 7-year-old boy with autism and a severe peanut allergy claims in a new lawsuit that a teacher didn't want her son to go on a class trip to the zoo. So, the suit contends, she tossed him a Mr. Goodbar -- chock full of peanuts.
"Maybe he could get sick enough not to attend and we won't have to deal with it," the teacher told a classroom aide, according to court and state documents.
The boy didn't eat the candy bar. The teacher, Trinda Barocas, has denied doing anything to prevent the child from attending the trip or harming any children. She has since resigned from the school, RISE Learning Center in Indianapolis.
The Mr. Goodbar allegation came to light when school officials called in state child welfare investigators after teacher's aides alerted them about concerns that the teacher was abusive.
Child Protective Services substantiated the claims, according to the agency's report.
The child's mother, Anita Young, became aware of what happened when the principal at RISE called her.
In addition to the suit against the district, Young wants criminal charges filed against Barocas.
"Every day I would send my son to school believing he was safe in school, a public school," Young said. "I was betrayed. . . . Now I'm left to clean up the damage."
CPS substantiated the claims of abuse in April. At this point, prosecutors have not charged Barocas with a crime. A spokesman for Marion County Prosecutor Carl Brizzi did not return a phone call for comment.
In her interview with CPS, Barocas said she had not wanted the boy to go on the field trip because he would act out, but she said she didn't do anything to stop him from coming.
The state report says teacher's aides also described Barocas as dragging Young's son and another student across the floor by their arms, pushing them, pinching Young's son and flicking the other student on her lips.
But the most jarring account is from early in the 2008-09 school year -- on the day of the field trip to the Indianapolis Zoo.
Teacher's aide David "Bo" Holder told investigators that on that day, Barocas said, "I wonder what would happen if (the boy) had peanuts? I could touch it, and then touch him."
Another aide, Heather Schroeder, told state investigators Barocas had given the boy the Mr. Goodbar.
Holder told the state he didn't see Barocas toss the boy the candy bar, but he said he heard her say she had given him peanuts.
Young suspects the reason the boy didn't eat the candy bar is because, like many children with autism, he won't eat foods he's unfamiliar with -- and he had never seen a candy bar in a yellow wrapper.
Young discovered the peanut allergy when her son was a small boy and he swelled up after touching his father's peanut butter sandwich. Doctors have warned Young and her husband that the boy will asphyxiate within minutes if he eats peanuts and isn't immediately treated.
The school was aware of the boy's allergies, and a large sign on the classroom door warned that peanuts were not allowed in the room. Young also had talked to the teacher about the peanut allergy.
"I think she's sadistic," Young said. "I think there's something wrong with her mind. She shouldn't teach. She shouldn't be allowed around kids."
Barocas' attorneys did not respond to calls seeking comment Thursday, but according to the CPS report, the teacher told the agency "she did not want (the boy) to attend the field trip to the Indianapolis Zoo because of his behavior. She stated that he did go and did many things that he was not allowed to do. Trinda compared (the boy) to an 18-month-old child several times. Trinda denied that she did anything or said anything to stop (the boy) from coming on the field trip."
She also told state investigators and attorneys she had not abused children in the other incidents, although she acknowledged occasionally making light physical contact, such as tapping, when correcting their behavior.
Perry Township Schools Superintendent Thomas Little said the district, which administers RISE, reported the accusations to CPS as soon as it was aware of them.
Before the accusations came to light in March, the district had moved to fire Barocas for poor performance, Little said. She instead turned in her resignation to be effective at the end of the school year.
But when the aides reported what they had seen, Barocas was placed on administrative leave and never returned to the classroom. She left the district at the end of the year.
"Based on our review of our facts to date, the district did everything they could," said David Day, an attorney for the district. "They addressed it as soon as they found out about it."
State teacher licensing officials have been working with CPS and the prosecutor's office to monitor the case, state Department of Education spokesman Cam Savage said. If wrongdoing is confirmed, Barocas could lose her teaching license.
Barocas also was placed on administrative leave in 2007 when she worked in Franklin Community Schools. At that time, a nurse told a child's mother that she had seen Barocas force-feeding the girl, slapping her and improperly restraining her.
The Sheriff's Department and school district cleared Barocas in that case. She told a Star reporter at that time, "I did not, will not and would not hurt a child in my care."
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Nie Nie is going to be on Oprah!!

Stephanie Nielson is going to be on Oprah tomorrow, Wednesday October 7. I can hardly wait!!! I already have it set to record just in *case* anything would happen that I can't be here to watch it.
Stephanie and her husband Christian Neilson were in a horrid plane crash one year ago and it was almost fatal. Her family pulled together to care for her 4 children while she and her husband were both in comas. They are both recovering thanks to our precious Heavenly Father. Their story will be aired on Oprah Winfrey tomorrow afternoon!! Thank you so much Stephanie for sharing your story and sharing your lives! You and your family are very much loved and treasured!
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Friday, October 2, 2009
For those who pray......

Calling all prayer warriors. Please pray for this family. http://nogreatergift.blogspot.com/2009/10/24-hours-of-prayer-for-ruslana.html They are in the process of adopting a beautiful little girl from Eastern Europe named Ruslana and they just found out that she will be transferred to the mental institution in 2 weeks. There is no way they can get to her in that time frame. The family is requesting 24 hours of prayer for Ruslana. PLEASE, PLEASE help this family by lifting them and their beautiful daughter up in your prayers.Ruslana is being transferred to the mental institution because she has Down Syndrome. She will have to live there for the rest of her life and many of the children do not even make it a year until they die. Some are even tied down in beds and severely neglected once they are in an institution. I cannot believe that this is God’s plan for Ruslana’s life…. Please help us pray from Friday (October 2) to Saturday at noon.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
October is Down syndrome awareness month
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Find something good in every day
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
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Monday, September 7, 2009
Birthday Princess
Another thing that is hard for me to believe is that her seizures have returned. She hasn’t had a seizure in 8 ½ years. To be honest, I really thought we were out of the woods on those nasty beasts. She had seizures as a baby, every day –throughout the day for 12 mos. When the seizures were finally gone the neurologist informed me that they could return again later in her life, as a different form of seizure. The thought of them returning was always in the back of my mind, but not something that really consumed my thoughts. When she had her first seizure this summer it was so out of the blue and unexpected. She was eating her cereal one morning at the bar in our kitchen. I turned to walk away and took a few steps when I heard a loud THUD. I turned around to find that she had fallen off of the bar stool onto the cold, hard tile and she was seizing. I grabbed her up into my arms and immediately started praying over her, and of course crying and boo hooing because all I could think was “what if she fell on her head wrong and she doesn’t wake up. What if she stops breathing, what if her heart stops beating?” I was more worried about her having a brain injury from the fall, than I was about her having the seizure. With each seizure she had I became more and more at peace about it. Instead of being angry, I would just grab her up and cradle her and pray over her until it stopped. God whispered to me that it would be okay and I believed him. Although Ashlyn went on to have 3 more seizures before her medication was actually started, I can happily say that she has not had any more seizures since she started taking medication and everything IS okay. Throughout her life (and my other children as well) I just turn the issues over to my Lord. I can’t possibly bear the load of heartache, grief and worry on my own, that I as a parent am faced with. God has been so good to me and my family and for that I am very thankful.
HAPPY 10TH BIRTHDAY PRINCESS ASHLYN. I love you more than you will ever be able to comprehend in this lifetime.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
It's Christmas in August!!!
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Our newest family member :)
Mason's pretty tickled with him too....they run all over the house-
back and forth, back and forth-
I love the sound of his little toenails
clicking along the wood floors...
awwwwwww
Ashlyn has been so sweet...she sits with her legs out straight
and pats her little legs and says "here puppy".
Howie is an 8 month old Daschund and Corgi mix.
He's so shiny and his coat is beautiful.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
It's been a good week!!
My little girl is slowly growing up on me!! She had two of her "first time's" this past week. The other day I took the kids to their aunt's shop to get their hair cut. If you know Ashlyn, you know that this is not usually a nice occasion. I have had to hide outside, hide in the bathroom, hide in the corner, etc. to get this wild childs hair cut. I have come out of there bleeding where she had scratched my chest because she was scared and freaking out about getting her hair cut. So yesterday Spenser went first. When he was finished he walked outside to get Mason because ya know we were saving the best for last. (Ashy) While he was outside Miss Priss walks over to the chair, climbs her bitty butt in that chair and was ready to get her hair cut. I almost passed out!!! Who is this child and what did she do with my Ashlyn??? She is such a silly girl. While she was getting her hair cut she kept saying "ow, ow, hurt me". We laughed and laughed at the crazy girl...she is soooo dramatic.
So the next day we were at Wal-mart and Mason wanted to pick out a backpack for school. While we are standing there Ashlyn points to a backpack and says "Fairy". So I pick up two, one with Disney princesses and the "Fairy" (Tinkerbell) and ask her which one she wants. Again she said Fairy. I hand her the backpack, fully expecting her to throw it down on the floor and laugh...but oh no... she really wanted the "Fairy" backpack. She eventually tossed it in the back of the shopping cart and this meant oh yeah, we are really getting this one. People this was huge okay!!! This child will be 10 years old on the 31st and she has NEVER ever picked anything out from the store!!! I have tried my best to let her pick out a dolly or heck, any toy for that matter and she has just never "wanted" anything from the store... it always ends up rejected on the floor. Even Mason was tickled that she picked out her own backpack this year...he's 8 years old and even he "gets it".
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
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Seizure update
Thursday, July 23, 2009
These make him happy!
What makes you happy?
makes her
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VERY HAPPY!
Ashlyn L-O-V-E-S cereal.
She asks for cereal no less than 10 times a day.
If you look above at the bent cereal box, you will see
how worn the box is from her dragging it out 10 times a day.
Why can't we all be tickled pink over something so small as a
yummy bowl of cereal and milk?
The morning Ashlyn fell off the bar stool we were out of milk. I put her
in her stool and gave her a bowl of dry cereal (praying that she didn't cry)
Instead of crying... what did she do? She had a seizure and fell off the bar stool,
OR
she fell off the bar stool and then had a seizure. We. don't. know.
My sister joked (she knows how much my girl likes her cereal) that
Ashlyn got ticked off because there was no milk and said I'll show her
not to run out of milk again. I'm going to fall on this floor and scare the pee out of my




























